I should prob tell them to not be around and make some boundaries....but it's my H not my inlaws I need to push away, right? No Relationship talk with visiting inlaws- all neutral or about the kids. We had a nice day with me getting a few hours alone, kids with gparents, etc. Made dinner together, H joined us after work...he knows this isn't all normal/happy family (well, we're happy family minus a dad/H). FIL knocked out all sorts of chores and got the car serviced - oil/tires rotated/washed, etc. MIL played with kids and helped me make dinner. For 3-4 days, I think this will be ok. D and S are loving the attention.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem