Well, I've spent all day on the run, gathering papers and reports. Saw my L, who says he doubts very seriously that any legal action can be taken as the things are still legally " Half His" BUT, they are also HALF MINE. Also, unless H admits to it, well, there is nothing they can do unless I file on the insurance and then he is found with the items.

On the bright side, my L says he is feeling very good about my chances for alimony, even if it's paying the house pymt. until it sells for starters. He thinks I have a very good case. I hope the judge sees it that way. No, I PRAY the judge sees it that way.

By the way, H emailed my old email and asked if it wouldn't be convenient for him to come by before we go to court and decide which of the household things were 'his half'. This one day after I discover the lock cut off. I moved the lawn tractor into the garage, where it will stay from now on. I do not intend to reply.

ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011