Punchy in my situation I confronted the om only cause my kids were involved. Nothing good comes out of that. Even in my situation my w has stated that she has limited the contact to the om. But, I know my W still is communicating with this OM. They Work together. I still don't know my status. I took off my ring on Monday. No sense holding on to the past, as my w has taken her rings off 4 months ago. My w finally noticed last night. My w told me that you know you are still married. I said I know. I respect my marriage vows. I asked her are you still married? I did not get an answer. I did not need to get an answer. Remember your w just like mine is getting something from this OM. That feeling. Someone to talk to. Hopefully your w and mine included finally wakes up. Just be patient. Work on you.
H 37 W 38 M 11 T 18 D 4 S 10 Bomb 27/11/2010 Separated still living in the same house 1/1/2012 No D Papers No Separation Papers