What I think we are all looking for is the place between feeling like we are fighting to make things work, and completely giving up. I think this is the place of “detaching with love” that we talk about. I believe in it. In this place we no longer feel a struggle, an agonizing battle. Instead we are at peace. But we have also not given up. We keep a door open if our S’s ever decide to walk through it.
Before giving up, try to find this place. I believe we can all get there.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.