I understand Bond, and TBH I do keep a level of compassion for her. I of course understand how much she is hurting. The last thing I told her when we were communicating was telling her about DB’ing and the path I was trying to put myself on. One of betterment and not of anger. Unfortunately she did not listen. And then it got worse. I have mentioned the calls she has made to my W.

Again, I understand her pain more than anyone, but I can not agree with how she is handling it, and I just simply want no part of it. It is not healthy for me, and it does not promote the path I want to be on. She will need to find support elsewhere; I cannot give it to her.


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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.