If you don't want to give up, don't. We have to remember that we can't believe what we hear. Give your W the space she needs. Go dark. Let her see what life without you will be like. Take that time to work on yourself, spend the time with your kids, be a better you. These are hard times right now. Quit on your terms.

Now if I can take my own advice, I will be ok.

BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...