Standing up to the punches

[Redo]

2step, I always value your wisdom.

"Love is a choice my friend. I am going on 5 months next monday. Are things different for my W. He!! yes. Do I feel that passion? Nope. Do I have a burning desire and miss her like a W? Nope.

I do love her. I will always love her. I have chosen to. That is why the dating and reconnecting is so important. When you have time and distance you do grow apart. You miss them in a different way. I miss her friendship. I miss her company. I am standing not because of some secret passion or fire I have for her. Perhaps that is gone. It can be re-kindled though and it will take time and effort on both our parts. I choose! Not her."

Yup, i miss my wife's company and friendship too. Both used to gossip about things in general. Now i find no one to talk about silly things like this. Yea at-least for now I have made the choice to love her.