Brian, breathe. Change your scenery. I know this is hard. I have received those papers also. You don’t have to look at them now. Give yourself time to calm down and center yourself. In my state we have thirty days to respond. Is this from your L or hers?

Someone posted in my thread these papers are only step 2 out of 100. The remaining 98 steps will take time. You have time, time to DB time become better. This is not over until you are ready for it to be over.

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill