I thought you did relatively well throughout the convo Tank.
Is what you uncovered about OM enough to cast any doubt in her mind about R with him? She's obviously wondering what kind of skeletons are in his closet. Will it be enough to swing the pendulum? Who knows? Depends on what kind of dirt you have. IDK. I'd be curious to know what others think.
I know in my sitch, one of my friends let me know that he found out the OM was talking to other women. I let my W know about it. It didn't change anything immediately, but it made her feel uneasy enough that she confronted him. Their R never went beyond the EA that OM had hoped. I know it wasn't all because of the info I had on him, but I'm sure it didn't help his cause.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa