The other day the W told me that when she is ready to discuss R she will tell me. After the movie I was not going to push her to discuss it. It was late, she had to get up with the kids in the morning so I thanked her and left it at that. I made the joke cause that is one of the things that attracted her to me in the past (humor). I wanted her to be at ease, I'm sure it was a difficult decision to ask me to watch it with her.
As for the retreat, I tried to get W to one in our area in Feb and March. She made it clear at that time she was not ready. There is one again in August and I hope to attend that one.
As hard as it has been to try and stay grounded over this last week, I can't but think things are going in the right direction. I have to try and not push her. That's why I didn't try and force her to discuss us or movie last night.
