i echo the bits team. DO NOTHING for her on that day unless she does something first. Here may be the problem. Dont read too much into anything she does that day. Your Grandmas plate may be something you are reading too much into as well imo.

Who knows what goes on in their pea brains and then our pea brains try to analyze it. A recipe for pea soup or just a disaster.

But let the day come and go. It will be 24 hours just like everyother day.

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M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11