Logistically it will be so hard. we both travel, work long hours, have high stress jobs.
I pointed out that D12 has no other family here, no cousins, no siblings.
If I quit my job, or go part time, we could do it, but again, we have big dreams for our daughter. Just the other night, he was telling my friends how he wanted D12 to go to private school for HS and to university, spare no expense.
He better try to reconcile his dreams and priorities - I do not think everything he wants in life can co-exist. But again, I am sure many people feel that way too. This is where i realize that my H is in a crisis - because my old H, logical, intelligent, and organized .... would never have had a problem with what his priorities are. Myself, yes, I always had, and that is why I was attracted to him, I am the flighty one. But not him.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
