Hi Ironman: We have a 3 year old. Last week i saw my daughter and took her out to the zoo, she kept telling me that she did not want to stay with grandma(wife stays with her parents) and she wanted to come home with me. Broke my heart. And we are pretty close to signing the final decree. But i am still keeping home. I have to for my daughter. I do believe that sometimes my wife has no idea what she's doing and for once in my life I am planning on being the stronger one for both of us and be the lighthouse. I am gonna push it for as long as i can. But i am going to try.

Do this for yourself. Do it so that one day you can be proud for what you stood up for and what you did. One day you will be able to proudly tell your daughter that you did what was right.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...