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A friend of mine who works for the company next door popped in to get something and she of course stopped by my office to say hello and check in. She knows what's going on with my sitch.

I said I'm doing ok and that my D date is in 11 days. She said here's a story for you...

Someone she knows got D'd from her H last year. He was in the military and kept signing up over and over at her asking him not to. And there were some other issues in their M as well that led to the D. Well, she said that these 2 have set a date to get remarried!!! She said it seems that sometimes people just need to break those ties, have sometime apart to work on themselves and realize what they both have lost.

Stories like that just keep my hope and will alive.

Thought I'd share....

Happy Friday!


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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
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Thanks Zen! Stories like that really help.

Here are the lyrics to a Michael English song called "Holding out Hope to You. They are powerfull

Though you've tried it all,
In your search for the truth,
Somehow you've fallen for a lie.
You're trying to recall
The simple ways of your youth,
And your faith is strong,
And you never, never question why.
But you found out life wasn't easy,
Sometimes the answers were hard to see,
You didn't have the strength for one more try.

Chorus:
I'll be holding out hope to you,
Even when this world breaks your heart in two.
When your life is consumed
By your fear and your doubt,
I'll be holding out hope to you.

In the stillness of the night,
There's a voice calling you,
Seems as though you've heard it once before.
In the darkness there's a light,
And the hand to lead you through
To the hope that waits behind the open door.
And you find out life is worth living,
And the answers lay where your faith begins,
It's there you'll find the strength
For one more try.


Me: 39
W: 44
SS 24
SD: 20
M: 13
T: 15
Bomb: 2/16/11
EA: 2/14/11
Papers Signed 4/13/11
Divorced 5/13/11
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Brian:

Just beautiful. Thanks for sharing this.


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T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
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Thanks for the cool story, Zen.

Hope you have a good weekend!

Craig


Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...
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I just hope some of us can have this same experience.


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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
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Great inspiration! Thanks Zen

You are not just being the lighthouse, you are being the rock under the lighthouse!


Brian and FOB, great tunes.

My song of the day is a toss up between Madonna's Ray Of Light and George Thorogood's Bad To The Bone.


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?

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