A friend of mine who works for the company next door popped in to get something and she of course stopped by my office to say hello and check in. She knows what's going on with my sitch.
I said I'm doing ok and that my D date is in 11 days. She said here's a story for you...
Someone she knows got D'd from her H last year. He was in the military and kept signing up over and over at her asking him not to. And there were some other issues in their M as well that led to the D. Well, she said that these 2 have set a date to get remarried!!! She said it seems that sometimes people just need to break those ties, have sometime apart to work on themselves and realize what they both have lost.
Stories like that just keep my hope and will alive.
Thought I'd share....
Happy Friday!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Here are the lyrics to a Michael English song called "Holding out Hope to You. They are powerfull
Though you've tried it all, In your search for the truth, Somehow you've fallen for a lie. You're trying to recall The simple ways of your youth, And your faith is strong, And you never, never question why. But you found out life wasn't easy, Sometimes the answers were hard to see, You didn't have the strength for one more try.
Chorus: I'll be holding out hope to you, Even when this world breaks your heart in two. When your life is consumed By your fear and your doubt, I'll be holding out hope to you.
In the stillness of the night, There's a voice calling you, Seems as though you've heard it once before. In the darkness there's a light, And the hand to lead you through To the hope that waits behind the open door. And you find out life is worth living, And the answers lay where your faith begins, It's there you'll find the strength For one more try.
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
I just hope some of us can have this same experience.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11