After reading that again, it sounds kinda...tit for tat there. and I didn't stoop to her level
Knowing the laws though, I did send a simple email stating the laws, and that if anything came up "missing" in the future, that I could legally recoup , if I felt the need..
And if she needed anything, then she could simply ask for them..
The answer would be either yes, or no from there...
I used the law for a boundary , and things quit coming up "missing" after that...