BTW....

After reading that again, it sounds kinda...tit for tat there. and I didn't stoop to her level

Knowing the laws though, I did send a simple email stating the laws, and that if anything came up "missing" in the future, that I could legally recoup , if I felt the need..

And if she needed anything, then she could simply ask for them..

The answer would be either yes, or no from there...

I used the law for a boundary , and things quit coming up "missing" after that...

I guess what I'm trying to get across is....

Know the law , and use it to protect yourself.