Wow Sparks, you and I have almost the exact same story almost exactly one year apart. I just joined this forum because of your story and to let you know someone else is going through a lot of what you did/are. Certainly each situation is unique but the similarities to mine are uncanny in a lot of regards. It looks like you are doing all the right things and everything you can. I won't hijack your thread with my story but if want to chat independently via email or otherwise, I would be happy to.