Separate the legal issues from the emotional ones. I agree with Cat - your H committed and crime and should have to deal with the consequences that come with said crime.
Take a step back, cool off and then figure out how YOU want to proceed. Whatever you do....do for YOU. Period.
BTW, hope you had a blast over in NO.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
