Here are some facts: - We have had issues before, and I have certainly been a major contributor to them. Frankly, I think I just wasn't getting it early in our marriage. - We have had a few times before this before she was thinking D, but she has never acted on it. - We did go to counseling 5/2008 - 4/2010 - I am new man who has deeeper love for this woman than I ever have. This was benefit of the counseling - it pointed me in a direction and new way of thinking.
Here is what I am hearing: - She is not feeling emotionally connected - ILYBINILWY - 'We went to counseling, and I thought things got better for a short period of time, but then they deteriorated back to where they were before' - 'My sister was divorced about 2 months after she said she was done' - 'I have made my decision (about D) and I feel really good about it.' - 'You shouldn't be getting your hopes up about us getting back together because I don't see how there's any way we can make it' - 'I am not happy.'
Here is one theory about her hurry - I am wondering if she is afraid if it takes too long, she will question her decision.
Does sandi2 or anyone else have any thoughts on the above?
