Ok it is time to pull up the big girl panties... (hopefully not granny panties though )
I am so sorry that your H did that.
Unfortunately, it is pretty par for the course.
And I know that it feels like a violation, like you can't breathe for even a single second...
Do what you have to do legally. This is a mess that he created and he is going to have to deal with the consequences.
As for the kids, maybe ask them to not respond to any communication with him regarding you.
If he wants to know your whereabouts, who you are seeing etc..., he needs to get that information from you, not them.
In the meantime, I want to say, thanks for the info about the spray tan, as crows feet have recently begun to make their appearance around my eyes. Uggh...
I live in Florida, I think I will just keep tanning the old fashioned way. By using the sun and a small amount of clothing
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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