The feeling of falling in love is the exact opposite of a breaking heart, but follow the same course. You have no control over them, and they both go away.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
I feel like I am in a better place today. A day of fishing did a lot of good for me and allowed me time to get a little more perspective.
I am going to take away whatever positives I can from the events of last week.
My W still loves me. My W still thinks about me. My W is very confused about the choices she has made. My W is not as happy with OM as she leads me to believe. My W KNOWS I love her, forgiven her, and will do anything to make our M work.
I am going to go back to what i was doing bf the events of last week, they were working. I will go dark except for what is absolutely necessary.
I will not focus on W and HOPE, but I will still love and care about her.
I will take care of mysf, my home, and my D and SD (when I can).
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
Keep up the good work Islander. This is a tough road but the only choice we have is forward and positive.
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BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11
Grr, I don't think I am going to contact OM W after thinking about what Country said. It might open up something that would be better left untouched. Thanks for your thoughts too
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
I still haven't talked to my W, and she hasn't tried to contact me either. A rough day, but I made it. I did not fall apart. Tomorrow is a new day to conquer.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
Islander. How are you doing today man? Hope you are coping well and have a plan to wade out of this Shizen.
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BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11