I don't think like most people. I do my best to accept all situations that come my way. My W and I are trying to get our live back. Unfortunately, she has to be pushed to move a tiny step at a time.
She has two choices we can live together and enjoy our lives or she can get help where things will be the same. Oh we've had MC but, it didn't help. She woudn't talk. She's starting to talk. Instead of silence she's nagging, complaining and putting up a fight. She's called a councelor for help after all the times she said she would make a call.