Denver, I find that there is some similarity in their behavior. As you may have seen on my post last night, my w also got possessive about stuff in the house and the state of some of the things in the house. I am nowhere near where you are now, but I do find it odd that the WAS still cares about what goes on in the house they so carelessly walked away from...

Seriously, why did my w need to throw in that little comment from my grandmother??? If she is done with me and does not want to be with me, why in the hell does she care what my GM thinks? It was almost as though she was throwing it in my face that my GM still cared about her. Why? I will tell you why. Because I think, secretly, my W still cares...

None the less, I am still very proud of you. I woke up this morning in a much better mood. Why, I am not really sure. I am no closer to a reconciliation than I was before. But, for some reason, I felt good today.

BITS, I need some serious help today. A certain day next week would have been our 10th anniversary. What should I do? Let it pass without notice of any kind? Acknowledge in some small way? Acknowledge it in some larger way?

I have no idea what I should do. Suggestions????

I am looking for any feedback here!

This BITS does not want to walk this decision alone...

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...