grr,
That is a tough one. Sounds like there could be some indecision in his WAS world... or the depression that has resulted from him choosing to destroy your marriage may be paralyzing him a bit...

Hard to say without knowing him personally.

Hang in there!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...