He wants to refi in both our names on a 15 year "to pay it off faster" WTF ever. I am in no position to make any decisions.

On a side note: I set ONE daily goal. Today was to just vaccummn my bedroom. I did my usual unhealthy inventory and I did notice something. It "seems" I could be very wrong, that H has hung up some shirts he backed 3 weeks ago. I dunno, could be nothing and probably is. I feel so good today that I finally let go, for today, that hold I had on him.


me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14