feeling much better today. H wants to refi the house. I told him I won't qualify on my own. Not sure what to make of that. I think it is an unwise plan at this stage.
W wants me to refi the house also. It sits on a small piece of the old family farm, 4 generations. We built much of it ourselves. The kids want to inherit it. Mom is very sad.
What makes the most sense for me is to sell it and split any profit with W. This was a hard decision, but I am at peace with it.
You need to do what make the best sense for you. Don’t let sentiment get in the way of protecting yourself.
Thanks for the suggestion about the archives.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
