I SUSPECT my H is involved with OW 3 states away. She isn't the problem, I have come to learn. Sure I spent many hours of my life that I will never get back on searches (of all kind) yet it doesn't change a fuc##ing thing. He still wants a divorce. I ask myself daily many times...why? We all know why. One thing I did learn, most WAS have someone hanging in the shadow. Actually, if I look at all my friends and family, not ONE left that didn't have someone else ALREADY or a standby.
[censored] big time. Now what?
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
