H takes all the blame - why?

[BeingMe]

Ah, you are from another country ... we are the same in that respect. Which is why my H never left the house either. Bottom line ... he is still family, and when you're in a country with no extended family, then it is unfair to leave your daughter with one less family member, no matter how hurtful he has been to you. She needs both of you. At least, I have 4 children and they supported each other, but still, I was glad we were both in the house to be there for them.