I just spoke with Jody. In response to the point you raised about not feeling $exual chemistry, she raised a very interesting point. She said that because Mr. GAG is in MLC, she doesn’t recommend $exual flirting. During MLC, men’s hormones are changing and so their libido is reduced….. and in Mr. GAG's situation, his grief over his mother’s impending passing will negatively impact his libido too. I got the sense (although Jody didn’t say this directly) that she might make at least a slightly different suggestion if the MLC H was not middle-aged. This perspective made a lot of sense to me.
I'll try to post a synopsis of our discussion in the next few days.
I'm playing TT with XH tonight. I'll try to post about that too in the next few days.