I forgot to mention that yesterday she was saying something to me and the word "baby" was included in the statement. I did not even take it as an opening to jump inot, it actually kinda made me upset that she would say somethign like that knowing how it may affect me.
Unfortunately for her, I finally over the little hints and hoping for resolution. I know what she is going to do and I have no sympathy any longer for what she is doing to me and our children. She is screwing up their lives and I refuse to let her ruin mine as well.
Why be careful? I will not fall into that trap Sandi. I know she does not mean it. I honestly think it came out on puirpose to try and get me to say somethign. I refuse to fall into that trap!
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
I have not thought about it because I really doubt that will happen, she has never asked in all our years of marriage I always was the initiator... I would say 99% of the time it was me. So I doubt she will and if she did or things seemed like she was wanting me to make a move, I serisouly doubt I would at this point. A month ago I would have been so excited but now, I would have to reject her motives.
Plus she has not kissed me since before Thanksgiving last year, she did hug me before I flew back to the states 2 weeks ago but again I felt it was loaded.
Protection? She is on birth control. Are you suggesting she is sleeping around?
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
Scared, I have been following your thread and I want you to listen to Sandi to the letter.
It was about a year ago, that Sandi and Puppy and Gucci among others told me to be aware for the possiblitiy of an affair or her sleeping around.
I said, NO WAY, no HOW . Not a chance. I would have bet my life on it. I refuted their urges to check it out time after time. Its a good thing that I didnt bet my life on it because I would be dead today.
NEVER discount the notion that she MIGHT be having an affair. IT is always possible. There are a some things that people do and have sex is one of them. IF she isnt having sex with you, she may be having sex with someone else.
IF i am wrong, and I hope i am, I apologize but like I said, I seriously would have bet my life on it that she wasnt cheating on me and guess what, she was 1 year into the affair before I found out.
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Well, the truth is, she has the following... A separate, Skype, yahoo messenger, twitter, Facebook, msn messenger, her own domain name with countless emails along wit my domain name and emails. God knows what else.... I am not naive and honestly would not be surprised, I would hate that she would lead it in instead of just letting me know. Oh, and 2 trips to England to hang with the girls in the last 6 months.
Again I am not naive, just waiting. Sex would not happen between us and I actually think I am finally ready to let her walk.....
Whoa.....be careful, very careful.