Good for you. The whole time I was reading this I thought oh no, please, I hope he isn't playing you in some way.

I think you're in a good position now and strong enough to make this stipulations and you'll stick to it.

M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
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