I can't even really imagine how hard this is for you, going through all of this top of your situation. Just be the rock right now, that is what she needs, nothing more.

If there is a chance at recon in the future, it's best to be put on hold until after the death of her mother passes for a while.

You actually sound really good today. Keep up the strength and things will improve, one way or another.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.