Am I Being Unfair ?

[misshim]

How should I respond? I have been in contact with my xh regarding our d6, possible ADHD w/oppositional & defiant disorder. School has been very hard for her and I'm taking her to the doctor soon. I notified xh about appointment. He's not happy and saying that I am the one who is doing this to our D. Now she will be labeled and on pills.

XH does see his D6 - 9 hours a week, but he can't seem to get her homework or reading done with her. And she does need the help !

Funny how even though we're divorced, we will always have to communicate about our D6. I guess it just hurts to hear him accuse me of making this up with D6. School noticed and I met with them (he never showed) regarding this issue.

I'm trying to move forward from this divorce, but I guess it's just so hard when I spend most of the time with D6 and I am trying to handle the issues that arise.

He's acting the happy, carefree x. But like he texted me this am. He hoped that I would just hit a semi! How age appropriate his comments are. Kind of like a 12 year old ???

He hates me because I care, and I want to help her through life. And no matter what I WILL be there for her. Unlike him who thinks quality time is to pickup his child and then drop her off so someone else watches her. No wonder he doesn't think she has any issues. He's not there for the meetings or to help with homework.

D6 was sick with the flu when he had her from Saturday thru Sunday. She got sick all over him and the bed !! Ha !

But he had to text me all about it. Then when he got it, he had to text me every few hours to tell me how sick he was. Argh !

I didn't answer him, why?

I just feel like I keep pushing on and getting no where.