**But I'm very confused about what to do next.** I can 180 and project confidence and cool and reap those rewards - but at some point don't I have to have this conversation with my W?
I do not disagree with Harrier, IMO you do need to have that conversation. The question is when, and I cannot know that. You might and one of the DB coaches probably can help you determine when.
Please forgive this folksy analogy; I grew up on a small family farm.
I can plant turnip seeds now and most of them will rot. The ground is too cold and wet.
I can plant turnip seeds in two months and most of them will produce, grub eaten wormy bulbs
If I wait until after mid summer the turnip seeds I plant will produce turnips I can sell.
Timing!
As important as timing is your demeanor. IMO, when you’re having a conversation like this listening and observing is more important than what you are saying.
Anger can motivate and confrontation might be constructive in the right circumstance, but you must be in control of yourself listening and observing to decide when to dial the conversation back.
Anger and confrontation got me where I am; into this sitch I was not in control of myself, be careful.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
