Country, I think it is a very good sign that our Ws have not filed for D yet. There is no waiting in the state I live in either. I know if I was sure about something like that, it would probably be on e of the first things that I did.
Sometimes I let the fact the my W has nit filed negatively influence my thoughts about how I should act. I start to ge afraid that if I make her mad, she will go file. I remind myself at that time, I am not in control, and she may file no matter what I do.
BITS
M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...