I am going to take his advice and not contact her anymore. As I am sure everyone here knows that is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. She was my best friend for 12 years and I looked forward to our conversations every night but now cant have any conversation with her. I am also going to be contacting a DB Coach in the next day or two to see if there is any hope in saving whats left because last night my W said that she is filing for D TODAY. Wish me luck.
