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The feeling of falling in love is the exact opposite of a breaking heart, but follow the same course. You have no control over them, and they both go away.


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I like that a lot. Very true.


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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
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I feel like I am in a better place today. A day of fishing did a lot of good for me and allowed me time to get a little more perspective.

I am going to take away whatever positives I can from the events of last week.

My W still loves me.
My W still thinks about me.
My W is very confused about the choices she has made.
My W is not as happy with OM as she leads me to believe.
My W KNOWS I love her, forgiven her, and will do anything to make our M work.

I am going to go back to what i was doing bf the events of last week, they were working. I will go dark except for what is absolutely necessary.

I will not focus on W and HOPE, but I will still love and care about her.

I will take care of mysf, my home, and my D and SD (when I can).


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That sounds great islander. Keep that feeling up, sounds like you are doing much better.


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islander you sound good
and i don't know if you are still thinking of contacting the other w, but please don't

it wouldn't lead to anything good

and i am certain too, that greatness is ahead....for all of us

look how much we have learned here


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Keep up the good work Islander. This is a tough road but the only choice we have is forward and positive.

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I am feeling down today, but nit as bad as I felt the other day. I haven't had any contact with my W for two days now.


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M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

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Grr,
I don't think I am going to contact OM W after thinking about what Country said. It might open up something that would be better left untouched. Thanks for your thoughts too


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M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
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I still haven't talked to my W, and she hasn't tried to contact me either. A rough day, but I made it. I did not fall apart. Tomorrow is a new day to conquer.


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M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
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Islander. How are you doing today man? Hope you are coping well and have a plan to wade out of this Shizen.


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W-42
M-16y
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s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11
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