GOSH! Do they all get hijacked by the same alien or virus?!
Birds-eye view I now see my H MLC started 2002 with the grand finale including full-blown A (replay) starting in 2009 and ending in 2010. Prior to PA I now believe there was an earlier EA out there. ANYWAY...........
In my H e-mails to OW he told her he didn't love me (he never stopped telling ME he loved me) and he also told her that he was unhappy in most of our marriage, something about the last 13 years being bad....
Nutshell- while involved w OW he was such a jerk to all of us- me, the boys, his employees, my side of the family...heck...he was even mean to our dog! I offered to leave and he didn't want that. So full of crap.
Now we are in piecing and he is just starting to reflect with some insight and honesty as to how he was feeling. OW moved away mid OCT and it has taken him 4 months to see through the fog.
We are right in the middle of reviewing the history. We are taking an honest look at what we want to keep and what we want to discard in our R. So I do think that history gets a good look.
My H admitted the other day that he blamed me for a lot of things....the kids' grades, our barn falling down and needing to build a new one, how long the grass got, having a garden...phew!
We have MC tonight and I want to talk about this.
MZ
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
