Yes, I think you are right we are in very similar sitch's. I just don't understand how she can stay but not even try with me.
Like you, I will be doing the same. Focus on my girls and continue acting and living the way I want to be and try and show myself and my W that my changes are for good.
She was again talking all excited about the future after we got home from D7's birthday. Talking about houses, and things to do in the future. I don't have any issues with these plans, some of them are things we'd talked about doing for years. I guess I just go on living, and hope at some point her walls come down and we can start having a R again.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011