well folks here I am lurking in the background, just an update to say old aunt got rushed back into hospital on sunday last, ex has phoned the hospital to see what's what, has he visited his old aunt, no he hasn't, guilt must be really eating at this guy now, its a shame to think that he is going to let his old aunt lay there poorly and eventually pass away and he isnt going to be grown up enough to go lay the past to rest and make up before the inevitable happens. ah well on his head not on mine, regards