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[ninelives]

5 am and not sleeping again. Great , back to that pattern,

Ive been off the sleeping pills for some time now but I may have to go back again. PISSER

So what is my plan after the dust settles from her mom's death?

I can stay in the friend zone as long as she is done with OM but if she contiues, how can I be supportive?

Can I get some advice on this please? If I stay in the friend zone then, isnt she cake eating?

Do i go back to being dark and detaching and just hoping she will get the required help and get healthy.

I havent been this confused for a few months now. I mean I thought that we were done pure and simple and that she was just moving on with OM and just had traces of regret.

I think the most consistent thing she says is that she wants her family in tact at times but wants to be free as well.

She cant have it both ways. I believe Sandi is right when she says that W wants what she cant have at the moment.

So after some time passes from her tragedy, do I just go dark and not speak to her on the phone anymore, just go back to texting when the kids are involved.

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