Rewriting History--does real history return?

[angel61]

My H rewrote history as well, and every now and then would say that he was unhappy all throughout our 13 years of marraige.

One day, I could stand it no longer. I asked him to stop tarnishing the past with what is happening in the present, told him we that I wanted our D12 to remember her childhood as a happy one, and how could she do so if we could not even talk about our good times?

That sort of woke up H, and he told me that was such a good way to think of it. he then started to acknowledge good times, especially when we talked about them in front of D12.