ok, I tried to make the rounds and catch up on posts - I dont know if I'll be on much while the inlaws are here. DB coach said to push H for a convo about the fall when my lease is up and I am considering moving 4 states away with kids to be closer to family. H has so far avoided commenting on my request that we set a date/time to do that while his parents are here to care for kids. It's time for him to face reality and give me any insight into how he sees us parenting these kids together...otherwise I'll be making my own decisions and he can just deal. It's a limited time offer made out of courtesy to the kids, since he has been acting like a decent father lately.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem