Not sure if this is the right place for me

[lostmiss97]

Ok, so I've thought about it a little more. He put himself in this position. Old me would have fixed it for him. I would have moved heaven and earth to make sure it was alright for him even if it meant I had to sacrifice for it. I've been his soft place to land for many, many years. Even now I've done that for him. I can't be that anymore. How is he going to figure out what changes to make if I'm there to make everything ok? Even if he doesn't realize he's the catalyst for his problems me being there to make it better isn't going to help me at all. I didn't make him buy a car that was beyond his means. I didn't make the grass look greener or push him out the door. I didn't tell him to leave the first job he had in 3 years. He did it all on his own. It is not my fault that he is made to take responsibility for his children by the state. Bottom line... his situation is not my fault. It is a direct result of the decisions he's been making over the past couple of years. I didn't break it so I'm not going to buy it.