Sitting at home with myself, part 2

[Navyguy]

Thanks for the wishes everyone. 24 hours until they are here...tomorrow's going to be a long day at work. I got W's new "office" set up in the basement, I think she will like it...she may not tell me that though, and that will be fine.

My plan...kindness, acceptance, listening, and patience. This has to go on her terms and at her speed...I don't think anything else will work. I do want to discuss what she wants our living arrangement to be though. I don't want to assume anything..how can I bring that up?