PINCH ME of HIT ME with a 2x4

[ninelives]

Thanks everybody. I do really appreciate the advice and support.

What a great site. Really.

Sandi2, I thought you had foresaken me but I really appreciate your advice and your straight from the hip approacha and I always have. Not always been great at following advice but always read it and pondered it.

I MUST take your advice to the letter. HIt me with a mountain of 2x4's till it finally gets ingrained in this thick Greek Skull.

You are ofcourse 100% right. I MUST ignore all realationship talk for quite awhile. IF she came back , she would be unhappy instatnly and question whether she is doing the right move.

I think she will regret this someday but that may be when she is older and hopefully wiser. She did break up a great family and a man that loved her deeply. She knows that but it isnt enough for her. Wonder what makes her tick?

I suppose for now that I will be by her side for the next little while then I will have to be indifferent for my own survival,not to be vindictive.

I cant see her or talk to her for some time until I can look at her and be IDK, apathetic or strive for that.

I know it will be difficult and it will take me some time to get there but detachment and GAL, for me is what I must strive for.

Wish me luck and thanks again Sandi, you are a saint with the wisdom of Athena, (staying with that Greek theme)

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