"This business of basing marriage much on "attraction" leaves me confounded."
And to me this is an important thing to "understand". We all have to be "attractive" to the "other". When we question why we are not.. we set ourselves up to fail. I am not 100% sure I really get it all FB2..
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.