He just called me. He wanted the mortgage info, actually he wanted ME to call them and explain that HE actually paid the 2nd twice this month and would that be applied to April.
I said I didn't have that information at the moment. Told him to call 411 and go from there. He kept me on the phone while he fumbled around his lap top and sure enough, he had the information.
I am ready "I hope" to pull way back. Did a lot of "out of the box" thinking. Life will go on, I might be happier, I might...I might...I might...
If I have to move, I have to move. The anger jumps in at that point. I bought this house 10 years before we were married and I STUPIDLY merged when we took out a second to pay off HIS bills and by all the toys that would make us 'happier'...ugg never got a minute of joy out of his motorcyles, RV (did like that) ect. Not $120,000 worth though. I know if the D goes through all of that will be sold and I will have a nice nest egg and will have to move out of my home. 2 months ago, the thought brought me to tears. Today, sad but no tears.
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
