Thank you all for your thoughts. I will reply more later. I am thinking about contacting OM W, to find out what really happened and to answer any questions she might have, if she cares. It may help me more than contacting OM. I know OM left his W twice bf, but he told my W he had never had an A bf. Here us probably more he hasnt told her and I think I need to find out if I can. Any thoughts?
My thought is....NO WAY!!!
I contacted OM's W, one of the worst decisions I made. I don't see any good coming from it....
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