Thank you all for your thoughts. I will reply more later. I am thinking about contacting OM W, to find out what really happened and to answer any questions she might have, if she cares. It may help me more than contacting OM. I know OM left his W twice bf, but he told my W he had never had an A bf. Here us probably more he hasnt told her and I think I need to find out if I can. Any thoughts?

BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...